As humans, when we meet one another, we instinctively gather as much information as we can from our interaction and based on that information, which is akin to the size of a small puzzle piece, we try to construct the entire jigsaw puzzle of that person using only that tiny clue. We can’t. It’s just not possible.
Passing quick judgment is a very dangerous habit because once we’ve judged someone, all our thoughts, actions, behaviors become dictated by the judgment we have of that other person and we literally create a filter for that individual, and that’s just not fair.
Here’s an alternative, since we can’t know the whole story, let’s suspend our judgement. Let’s give them the benefit of the doubt. Let’s assume they want what we want, peace, love, respect.
Know you are blessed,