All your feelings are legitimate. It’s important to feel them fully, and then move on. Nursing your grievances indefinitely is a bad habit because it hurts you more than it hurts them.
Nobody’s life should be defined by their pain. It’s not healthy, it adds to our stress, it hurts our ability to focus, study and work, and it impacts every other relationship we have (even the ones not directly affected by the hurt). Every day you choose to hold on to the pain is another day everybody around you has to live with that decision. And feel its consequences.
Do everybody — and yourself — a big favor: Let go of the pain. Do something different today and welcome happiness back into your life. If anyone deserves it, it’s you. ~Mostly from http://psychcentral.com/…/learning-to-let-go-of-past-hurts…/
Know you are blessed,